Too Busy for Romance? Not With These Fun Valentine’s Day Ideas for Busy Couples

Valentine’s Day falls on a Tuesday this year. While it may not be as crowded or competitive as one that falls on a weekend of Friday, it still poses a challenge, especially for working couples. How do you squeeze in time for romance in the middle of a busy work week? Well, if you’re resourceful, there are plenty of things to do on Valentine’s Day for busy couples.

If you’re too busy to think of ideas, read this blog and find some romantic ideas for Valentine’s Day. We’ve listed some fun things for couples to do on Valentine’s, as well as some unique Valentine’s day gifts for couples.

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Valentine’s Date Ideas for Busy Couples

Running out of romantic Valentine’s Day ideas for couples? Or are you in a fresh relationship looking for ideas for Valentine’s Day for new couples? Here are some fun things to do that are a step above the usual dinner-and-a-movie.

1. Romantic Date Night at Home

Nothing beats a nice home-cooked meal after a busy night at work, right? Add your romantic spin to it by cooking each other’s favorites. If you’re not handy in the kitchen, a charcuterie board is a nice alternative. If you both work late nights, why not start the day with a romantic breakfast for two?

2. Late-Night Stargazing Picnic

Pick a nice outdoor spot where you have an unobstructed view of the sky. A park or a condo rooftop will do. Pack a few treats and a blanket and spend the night stargazing. Add more atmosphere to the date by bringing a Bluetooth speaker and listening to your couple playlist.

3. OT Together

Can’t log off work just yet? Take your OT together — book a co-working spot that allows late-night rentals, order your favorite takeouts, and work the night away in each other’s company. Make sure to take coffee breaks and catch up.

4. Spa Night

An alternative to at-home date night ideas would be to give each other spa treatments at home. A relaxing massage and a foot spa will not cost much. If you’re both in serious need of a professional massage, then spring in for a home-service masseuse.

5. Romantic Scavenger Hunt

A scavenger hunt takes a bit of planning but it’s fun for all. Instead of just leaving clues around the house, consider attaching tiny treats as hints leading up to the big surprise. If you have kids, it would be nice to get them involved in the game as well.

Valentine’s Day Gifts for Couples

Buying Valentine’s Day gifts can be tricky, so we don’t blame you for putting it off last minute. If you need some fresh ideas, we’ve got a few suggestions.

Personalized “gift coupons”

You don’t need to spend too much on this. Just write down special favors, treats, and challenges you want your SO to cash in throughout the year — but be sure you can commit to doing them!

Couple shirts

Don’t go for the store-bought couple shirts. Personalize them instead! Design shirts that feature the two of you as the romantic leads in a popular movie. Write your special nicknames for each other on matching shirts.

Couple travel journal

Are you a jet-set couple? Get a nice travel-themed journal. Spend your Valentine’s Day dreaming up your 2023 travel goals and syncing your vacation leave schedules.

An old-fashioned love letter

No Hallmark cards for this one. Express how you feel in your own words. If you’re not a letter-writer, then try other formats — a video letter, a series of emails, or tuck secret notes in your partner’s things for them to find as a surprise. Add your creative spin, but be sincere. 


Making time for loved ones during Valentine’s Day is just as important as your career goals. Busyness is really no excuse — there are plenty of things to do for busy couples as long as you’re resourceful. Many of them don’t even require too much of your time. It may seem like a cliché, but it is still repeating: it really is not the extravagance, but the thought and time spent together that count.


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Frequently Asked Questions About Things to Do on Valentine's Day for Busy Couples

Q: What can I do on Valentine’s Day without money?

A: There are many romantic Valentine’s Day activities for couples that don’t cost much. At-home date night ideas include a home-cooked dinner, then a romantic movie streaming session after. You can also do fun couple games for Valentine’s Day like Twister or scavenger hunts. 


Q: What should I do on an LDR Valentine’s Day?

A: Some romantic things to do on Valentine’s day for busy couples on an LDR:

  1. A Zoom dinner-date-and-a-movie
  2. Send each other romantic care packages
  3. If you’re in opposite time zones, catch a sunrise/sunset together


Q: How can I make Valentine’s Day fun?

A: Plan for it. Think about what you and your partner will love and enjoy together. If you have no idea, ask! Even if the date does not go as planned, your partner will still appreciate that you took the time and effort.


Q: What should you not buy on Valentine’s Day?

A: Valentine’s Day is all about romance and indulgence, so buying your partner essentials that they can easily buy for themselves would not be advisable. Here are other things you probably shouldn’t buy on Valentine’s Day:


  • Last year’s gift
  • Appliances
  • Gym membership (or fitness equipment)

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